Jane Marie Chen: Why A Million Lives Saved Can't Fix What Is Broken Inside
Aconic host Soon Yu sits down with Jane Marie Chen, entrepreneur, bestselling author of Like a Wave We Break, leadership coach, and co-founder of Embrace Innovations. Embrace created a life-saving infant warming blanket that has helped save over one million babies worldwide.
Despite extraordinary success, Jane shares the truth few leaders talk about: even after saving a million babies, she still felt like a failure.
In this powerful conversation, Jane opens up about resilience, leadership, mental health, and the hidden emotional toll of high achievement. She explores how cultural expectations, generational trauma, and self-criticism shaped her leadership—and why outward success alone cannot heal what’s broken inside.
Soon and Jane dive into:
The difference between grit, endurance, and true resilience
Why psychological safety in teams starts with inner psychological safety
The pressure many Asian and AAPI leaders face around achievement and identity
How Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helped Jane heal
Why self-respect must come before filial respect
Letting go of beta blockers and fear around public speaking
This episode offers a deeply human perspective on resilience, authentic leadership, psychological safety, and self-acceptance. If you’re a founder, leader, creator, or anyone navigating personal growth, this conversation will change how you think about success.